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APPLETON, Wis. (WFRV) – Wearing denim on the last Wednesday of April is more than a fashion choice; it’s a statement meant to challenge misconceptions about sexual violence and support survivors.
Denim Day, observed annually during Sexual Assault Awareness Month, is a global campaign aimed at dispelling the myth that a person’s clothing has anything to do with sexual assault.
The movement traces back to a controversial court ruling in Italy in the 1990s that overturned a rape conviction based on the argument that the victim’s tight jeans implied consent.
In the Fox Cities, organizations like Reach Counseling Services see the impact of sexual violence firsthand. Advocates say the issue is widespread and often underreported.
“We know that the statistics are one in four women and one in six men will be victims of sexual violence at some point in their life,” Reach advocate Marianne Radley Welhouse said.
Reach Counseling provides around-the-clock support for survivors, including hospital advocacy, legal assistance and long-term counseling. Trained volunteers and staff can meet survivors at hospitals during forensic exams and help guide them through the next steps.
Some of those steps could involve reporting to law enforcement, seeking therapy or simply talking through their options.
Advocates emphasize that each survivor’s experience and path to healing is different.
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“Everyone is going to react differently,” Radley said. “Sometimes it’s talking to a friend first. Sometimes it’s going straight to the police or getting signed up for therapy. It’s important that every survivor knows there are options.”
There are also signs that someone may be struggling after experiencing sexual violence. These can include withdrawing from conversations or activities, changes in sleep patterns, or showing up late to work.
“There are so many people that don’t come forward because they’re afraid of not being believed or being judged,” Radley said. “There’s still so much shame and stigma. The first thing is to offer a nonjudgmental space and start by believing.”
While Denim Day brings heightened awareness each April, advocates stress that education and support must continue year-round.
“As long as sexual violence is an issue, there are going to be survivors who need support,” Radley said.
This year also marks a milestone for Reach Counseling Services, which is celebrating 50 years of serving the Fox Cities. What began as a small group of volunteers has grown into a comprehensive support network for survivors.
From raising awareness to providing direct services, advocates say the mission is clear: ensure survivors are heard, believed and never feel alone.
